Posted in 2019, Love, Love Journey, Love Lesson, My Love Journey, Relatonships

Love Lesson

When starting a relationship. Do you believe and think its best to be friends first are just jump in head first.

I believe in getting to know a person and becoming friends. Its good have a bond with someone. Knowing the good and bad. Some say friendship is good because you learn the end and out of the other person. You grow as a couple and some may think it’s not good. You could run them off once they get to know you. Some may see the ugly and not want to put up with it for a lifetime. Some may see it and love it and know how to handle it.

Why jump in head first without thinking. Some may succeed in that kind of relationships and some may not. Makes me wonder is it safe to do relationships that way. So many questions running thru my mind when I think about starting a relationship without been friends.

Love to hear yall thought and opinion on this topic. Thank you for joining my love journey.

Posted in 2019, Heart, Journey, Love, Love Journey, Relatonships

Happy Valentine Day

Today is Valentine Day. Some see this day as to share your love with your other half or someone you may be crushing. We who know we share our love for them every day just not on Feb 14.

I may be single but I’m here wish everyone a happy valentine day, pray you to continue to share love all year around. For many who have read my Love journey. I truly believe we should love ourselves first before we love another. If we can’t do that, how are we going love someone else? I love seeing the different post all over social media. Some may be just for show and some are real. One day I pray have just that.

Do you know what love is? There no greater love then God. I believe a mother love is next powerful love anykne can experience.

Posted in 2019, Love, Love Journey, Love Lesson, My Love Journey, Relatonships

Love Lesson

Wounded people have the tendency to take out their frustrations on whoever comes along next. You can’t learn to love or allow someone to love you if you are still frustrated and controlled by the pain from your past ..Break up with Dysfunctional relationships and stop building up for the next while you’re being damaged for the next ..I break the chain of allowing toxic relationships to live within you ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ’– #itspossible

Another powerful message. So many carry the hurt from previous relationships to next. We’re doing more damage than good. We need to heal before we can move on to another relationship. Sometimes it’s best to be by yourself. Love yourself first, then were able to love another. As y’all may know I’m on love journey. Love hear what y’all have say on the matter.

Good afternoon, another powerful message. Pray, speak to someone heart/soul. God Bless

Posted in 2019, Love, Love Journey, My Love Journey Thought, Relatonships

Love Thought

SINGLE LADIES๐ŸŒบYou might be too heavy in the eyes of some men, but too petite for others; too smart for an uneducated man, but not smart enough for an intellectual; too wise for a foolish man, but not wise enough for a man of wisdom, too talkative for a shy man, but too quiet for an outspoken man; too short to reach the man of your dreams, but too tall to lower your standards, too conceited for humble man, but too passive for a man of confidence. Keep in mind that you will appear differently in one man’s eyes compared to another’s, but in the eyes of the RIGHT man, you will be PERFECT – for Him! #holdon #yourebeautiful #besoencouraged๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿพโค๏ธ๐Ÿ’•

Good Afternoon, I pray all is well with each and everyone of you all. God Bless

As I continue on my love journey, for inspire with another message to share with y’all. Would love hear what you all may think. God Bless

Posted in 2019, Love, Love Journey, Love Lesson, Relatonships

Love Lesson

We donโ€™t have a lifetime for wrong relationships. Donโ€™t make desperate choices, and then be forced to make drastic changes.

What powerful message, so many of us make the wrong choices and then have pay for it. We got to be more careful when it comes to any and all relationships. It’s even worse when you have kids in the mix. We truly got to do better.

Good Morning, I pray all is well and everyone enjoying there Friday. &

Posted in Journey, knowledge, Love, Love Journey, Relatonships, Thoughts!!!!

Love Lesson

If somebody loves you, they won’t make you Guess. You’ll know.

I was supposed post this message a few months back but life knows how to slow us down. Growing up we couldn’t tell if someone cared for us. You know this would have been a very important message for me in my younger years when I was confused and wonder if he did or didn’t. Sometimes we still need that confirmation but if you got guess then you already know the answer. Hope bless someone spirit today. God Bless

Posted in 2018, Decisions, Love Journey, Relatonships, Wisdom

Love Lessons


If you’re only attracted to them physically and you don’t care what they have on the inside internally…#YouAreOnSale

#Relationships #StandardsUP

Good Afternoon, pray all is well with each and every one of you all. As some of you knowย  I’m on love journey. Things I have learned by either going through are observing. I love to hear with each and every one of you think on this matter. Let’s talk.

Posted in 2012, 2017, heart, Love, Love Journey, My Journey, My Love Journey, poem, Poetic, Poetry

Just Maybe…

just maybe

I’m missing you…

And wanting you back…

Just Maybe…

but I refuse to let you back in

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

I catch myself thinking of you

but I refuse to pick up the phone

and crawl back…

Maybe I’m Missing You….

Do that make me a fool?

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

I’m missing you…

But the lies you told…

was too many…

So many lies told…

So many tears shed…

Maybe…

Maybe…

Just Maybe…

I could be missing you…

Thinking of you…

hoping forย  a different outcome

Lastnight..

My heartย beating to you…

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

I’m Missing You…

10/14/12

~PJ~

Another poem from the past that I would like to add to my love Journey. Do enjoy and let me know what you think. God Bless:)

Posted in 2010, God, heart, Love, Love Journey, My Journey, poem, Poetic, Poetry, Pray

Thru Your Eye’s

I see the man…

Godย created you to be…

Thru Your Words.

I feel your pain,

and emotions you had

to endure alone.

Let Me …

Heal You.

just these once.

Let Me.

Be Your

Shoulder..

for support.

Thru Your Eye’s

and Word’s

I see the change in you.

Thru Your Action.

I see so much in you.

Your Love…

Your Soul…

Your Heart…

When will you learn..

I’m here for you,

even when things get rough…

I can’t be there for you…

if you don’t open up to me…

Thru Your Eye’s.

you seem to be against the world

on your own…

You lose someone who

can’t takeย being shut out…

You lose a love…

that never can be replaced…

I don’t think I can let

myself love you anymore…

Everytime..

I give you part of my heart…

You hurt me…

Thru Your Words…

I feel…

but don’t return the love…

Thru Your Eye’s…

I can’t see who

God wanted you to be.

You Lose Some…

You Win Some…

You Lost Me…

because you couldn’t

understand how a real woman

could love you

and be there for you…

Thru My Eye’s

You still hurt from the last one

Thru My Words…

I can’t even seem to care like

I use too…

I have changed so much over the past

few weeks…

Your Love…

use to…

touch me in every way…

Now It can’t even melt

the ice from my cold heart…

Thru My Soul…

I’m done with the

back and forth…

I pray you made it where God

Want you to be…

Let the next woman…

guide you thru your

hard times…

Let me hear about it…

And..

Not take it with you…

Thru My Words…

I’m done with you…

No lost love…

No Nothing…

Let My Actions…

Speak Louder Than Ever…

“Boom Boom”

Justice Bn Serve…

Poetic

12/26/2010

God Bless

A poem I wrote years ago and wanted to share it with you all. ย I believe it’s good to see how far you come with writing. I can’t believe it been that long since I wrote this piece on here. The poem will be dedicated to love journey. Do enjoy and God Bless

Posted in 2016, fight, Goodbye, Heart, Love, Love Journey, poem, Poetic, Poetry, Uncategorized

Fight the Feelings…

Fight the Fall

I can see myself falling…

in love with man….

I can’t have…..

I seem to always…

get put in this position….

Why we want what we can’t…

have?

I tell my heart to stay on guard..

because his my weakness…

It’s like diving head first…

and think later…

Why the hell you making me feel..

this way?

I love been free…

without remorse….

I’m screwed…

while you here…

I see myself loving you…

While fighting my heart…

I don’t want love here…

What happen to fun and freedom….

Did I mess up falling for you….

YES!!!

Did I FUCK UP, letting you back..

in my bed?

HELL YEA!!!!

I hate that I let my guard break once again..

When will I learn?

I’m falling and fighting myself?

I so hate…

feeling soย confuse…

You cloud my judgement…

I’m over here over thinking..

and still fucked up…

I’m falling..

while fighting regret…

I regret that one last chance to go there with you..

that one last chance to put my feelings in the air..

I regret opening myself to a man who isn’t ready..

I fail to realize to not see I couldn’t control..

how my feelings would react when you walk back in..

How did I let my heart get chip…

dent…

I regret everything that has happen in the past week..

But then again I can’t say…

I really regretted it…

It was meant to happen, so I could open…

my eyes to you..

I was hoping he would open

his eyes to reality…

but as someone brought to my attention..

I fucked that up by being..

unexperienced….

What do we do when regrets seem to take over..

But at the back of your mind..

You screaming…

but words seem to betray you ..

and your emotions is taking over..

~PJ~

Not sure when I wrote it. I just know it was sometime last year. With different things I was going thru, and things other people were going thru. Just put my heart in my work and wrote.ย  I thought about changing some of the language, but at that point of my life. I was struggling so hope you enjoy..