Posted in 2019, Love, My Love Journey, Relatonships

My Love Journey P.3

How do you know you love a person? Or what you feel is Love and not Lust.

I ask a close friend these questions, and she gave me a good answer. She truly had me thinking about it. Have we made a decision in the past about who we love or telling a person we love them because we thought what we felt was love? I know it’s easy to say you love a person, but the action does speak louder than words.

I’m still on my love journey for the ones who were with me for a while and for the ones who haven’t. I started this post back in 2011 or 2013. And taking breaks from them as well as blogging. I have returned with more questions and thoughts as well. So hoping to stay on track with them this goes around. Love is a beautiful thing, don’t you think? Do let me know about love/lust. Until next time. God Bless

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Posted in 2019, Heart, Love, Love Journey, love thought, My Love Journey, My Love Journey Thought, Relatonships

Love Thought

Are we really basing love from romantic novels? I love to read them, don’t get me wrong. But let’s talk reality love is work. I feel that the problem for most people now a day. Marriage ain’t lasting because we ready to throw in the towel and walk away. We not fighting for our relationships. Are we really becoming statistics on marriages failing in today society? One day I love you and next, I hate you. Love is amazing, beautiful even. But if you not loving yourself you missing out on so much. Sometimes reality need sink in and open our eyes and heart.

So many things to consider and wonder while on this love journey of mine. I can’t be the only one that thinks this way. What comes to Y’all mind?

Posted in 2019, Love, Love Journey, love thought, My Love Journey, Relatonships

Love Thought

When dating why do we take so much crap from them? Is it cause we truly believe we deserve it. Are is it cuz we think they the one for us. Are we setting ourselves up to be mistreated later down the road? We need to know what abuse is when dating, so we know our cue step back.

As you all know I’m on love journey. This thought came to me and I was like I need to write and share with Y’all. Would love hear what Y’all think. God Bless

Posted in 2019, Love Journey, love thought, My Journey, My Love Journey, Relatonships

Love Thought

Just because you’re single that doesn’t mean it’s due to your problems, just because they’re getting married doesn’t mean they’re getting blessed.

Wow messages speaks so much to me. The thoughts that runs through our mind when it seem like everyone around us is getting marry and having a family. And I’m still like woah when will it be me. Anyone else every felt like that?

Good Evening, I pray all is well and message speaks to someone soul/heart. God is truly good all the time. God Bless

Posted in 2019, Heart, Love, Love Journey, My Journey, My Love Journey, Relatonships

My Love Journey P.2

I did a post earlier for my Love Journey and shared a song about How can we Mend Broken Heart. Funny thing, I may change sides along my journey because I’m learning new things about myself every day. And hey I’m a psychology major, so give me a break. Lol

Can we truly mend a broken heart? I mean really mend it? Will it always be whole or do we actually have to work at it long as we discover who they truly or. I have many poems that will make you wonder and many quotes and question that will be like umm maybe she got a point or you might be just as confused as I am. Hell, I don’t know.

  • One of my favorite statements came from my cousin a few months ago . How true could it possibly be? It takes a strong woman to love a torn man, but a stronger man to love a scorned woman; two strong-minded people can’t be together, because they will always be bumping heads. When you find the person who is weak in the areas where you are strong, strong in the area where you are weak, then that’s compatibility! This makes it a stronger relationship.

This lovely status caught my attention. Makes me wonder how true it could be. I done met a few men in my life that was either torn or broken whatever you want to call it. Maybe I was meant to heal him for another woman to deserve him. Maybe I was meant to get as close as I did with the next one, but not really have him as mine. I wish I had known that before I fell in love with him. The last one I didn’t give a chance because my heart was trying to come to the grip of losing the last one, that held my heart so tight, that made it so hard to walk away. So the next time one walks in my life I’m prepared, how about you? What’s y’all thoughts?

Posted in 2019, Journey, Love, Love Journey, My Love Journey, Relatonships

My Love Journey

I started blogging a few years ago on Xanga basically on my Journey on LOVE but it ended up discovering who I was with all my trials and tribulations. I have have been here for a while now and so I decided to bring my other blog here little by little. I have poetry and questions about love and I know for a fact I’m not the only person dealing with LOVE. So hope you all enjoy it and if you have questions or comments do ask and put your inputs here. Love to see where everyone has to say. I’ll be posting something here every day or every other day depends how hectic my week is going. Being that I’m psychology major and I’m either having a talk with someone for myself meaning getting advice or giving it to a friend or reading different blogs. I love to learn more, you can never learn enough, don’t let anyone tell you differently.
I have been through a lot with this word and love. I done gave up and close my heart, but I remember that God didn’t give up on me (us). So why should we give up and become cold? A man and woman will let us down, but he wouldn’t. I know to be in a relationship of any kind. Such as marriage, dating, etc. Yes, we going to go through something. Love is patient. I need to learn to have that and I’m pretty sure I’m not the only person out there who doesn’t have it. I have come to conclusion. I don’t have any whatsoever. I got common sense to know when to let go and walk away. Some peoples don’t want help and want to stay in the past. If being betrayed, angry and so far, make you happy then more power to you.

The song I would l like to share today will be song redid by Ruben Studdard and question to go with it. Can a broken heart be healed? As he sings “How can I mend a broken heart”? Something to think about, because I have learned from this song and poem shall be posted shortly.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLWOUH-8yus

Not sure if the video will load again, blogging from the phone.

After having trouble trying to reblog my work, and just recopy everything. I decided to go this way. After bringing love lesson/love thought to the blog. I was like why not bring My Love Journey postback, it been a long time and I wouldn’t mind sharing them again and getting feedback.

Posted in 2019, Love, Love Journey, Love Lesson, My Love Journey, Relatonships

Love Lesson

When starting a relationship. Do you believe and think its best to be friends first are just jump in head first.

I believe in getting to know a person and becoming friends. Its good have a bond with someone. Knowing the good and bad. Some say friendship is good because you learn the end and out of the other person. You grow as a couple and some may think it’s not good. You could run them off once they get to know you. Some may see the ugly and not want to put up with it for a lifetime. Some may see it and love it and know how to handle it.

Why jump in head first without thinking. Some may succeed in that kind of relationships and some may not. Makes me wonder is it safe to do relationships that way. So many questions running thru my mind when I think about starting a relationship without been friends.

Love to hear yall thought and opinion on this topic. Thank you for joining my love journey.

Posted in 2019, Love, Love Journey, Love Lesson, My Love Journey, Relatonships

Love Lesson

Wounded people have the tendency to take out their frustrations on whoever comes along next. You can’t learn to love or allow someone to love you if you are still frustrated and controlled by the pain from your past ..Break up with Dysfunctional relationships and stop building up for the next while you’re being damaged for the next ..I break the chain of allowing toxic relationships to live within you 👑🙌🏽🙏🏿💖 #itspossible

Another powerful message. So many carry the hurt from previous relationships to next. We’re doing more damage than good. We need to heal before we can move on to another relationship. Sometimes it’s best to be by yourself. Love yourself first, then were able to love another. As y’all may know I’m on love journey. Love hear what y’all have say on the matter.

Good afternoon, another powerful message. Pray, speak to someone heart/soul. God Bless

Posted in 2012, 2017, heart, Love, Love Journey, My Journey, My Love Journey, poem, Poetic, Poetry

Just Maybe…

just maybe

I’m missing you…

And wanting you back…

Just Maybe…

but I refuse to let you back in

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

I catch myself thinking of you

but I refuse to pick up the phone

and crawl back…

Maybe I’m Missing You….

Do that make me a fool?

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

I’m missing you…

But the lies you told…

was too many…

So many lies told…

So many tears shed…

Maybe…

Maybe…

Just Maybe…

I could be missing you…

Thinking of you…

hoping for  a different outcome

Lastnight..

My heart beating to you…

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

Just Maybe…

I’m Missing You…

10/14/12

~PJ~

Another poem from the past that I would like to add to my love Journey. Do enjoy and let me know what you think. God Bless:)

Posted in 2016, heart, Love, Love Journey, My Journey, My Love Journey, poem, Poetic, Poetry, Relatonships

5/8/16

image

When you start not care anymore…
Moving on never felt so good…
It helps when they make it so..
Easy..
I Thank You..
You the REAL MVP..
I love you for helping me..
Let go…
The less I care..
The more Joy…
I feel inside..
I can’t complain…
When you showing me,
The true you…
I can only Thank You…
When care turns into…
Remorse..
That’s when you know stupid..
Finally..
Ran its course..
IM FREE..
AT LAST..

~PoeticJourney~
5/8/16

Wrote the poem while I was sick.  So much I had clear my mind/heart. Feels good when you let your heart do what it loves.. Let Go and express.. dedicated to My Love Journey..  No title as of yet..