Posted in 2019, Love, Love Journey, love thought, My Journey, My Love Journey, My Love Journey Thought, Relatonships, worth

My Love Journey Thoughts

When looking for love and dating. How do yall feel about them calling you sweetie, baby, sexy, etc? I’m not fond of it, just be honest. You don’t know me so don’t come at me with sweet talk. I feel like we have let them pass because we think its cute are whatever reason may be. Sweet talking doesn’t work on me. What happens to talk to the opposite sex with respect? If you correct them they want to call you a female dog. Why should I lose my worth because they have lost their dang mind on the correct way speak to me with some sense. Am I wrong for thinking like that. Fellas how do yall feel about woman calling yall sexy, handsome, etc?

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Posted in 2019, Faith, God, Love, Love Journey, love thought, My Journey, My Love Journey, My Love Journey Thought, Relatonships

My Love Journey Thoughts

Does love truly find us in odd situations? Do we find it or go looking for it? Do we wait? I was always told We first got to help ourselves. Is that true when looking for love? Or does that mean we should discover who we are, or get ourselves out into the dating world? Can we truly find love online? I decided to give it a try. I don’t have high hopes for it. It’s good and bad in every situation when dealing with dating. How do you know when to go for it or step away. I’m putting my FAITH in GOD. He’s going to lead me. I also wonder if love could be really for me.

~TO BE CONTINUE~

Getting my toes wet and seen what it’s all about. Join me on my Journey, do share some of your experience are thoughts with me. Until next time. God Bless

Posted in 2019, Heart, Love, Love Journey, My Journey, My Love Journey, poem, Poetry

To be healed

I had to wait for my heart to heal.
I had to forgive myself
I had to learn to love me again
I never realize the hell you took me
Through
I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror.
I hated everything you took me through
I had to wait for my heart to heal
Boy you broke me
You destroy everything I was.
I had to learn to love me again
I had to have chat with myself
Teach myself you are worthy
I had to show myself
Who I was
That I was worthy
To be love
Boy
You showed me how strong I could be
Once reality kicked in.
I saw me returning to the strong woman
I once was.
I just had to wait
I had to learn to forgive myself
I just had to wait
To my heart heal
And I felt my worth
It was amazing
Feeling
To know my worth
To be loved
The way I loved you.
It’s an amazing feeling
To be healed

4.27.19

~PJ~Day 27. Feels good to express myself more and more after not writing for almost 2yrs. Do enjoy God Bless

Posted in 2019, Heart, Love, Love Journey, memories, My Love Journey, past, poem, Poetry, Relatonships

Trying Love You

When you going to see me for me
And not no one else.
I’m not them
I’m trying to love you
Baby
When you going to see me for me
Right now you breaking my heart
You see your past
And not your future
I can’t keep taking hits like this
Boy
When you going to see me for me
I’m here love you
I’m not trying to use you
I’m just trying to be the one for you
I’m trying to heal and love you
But all you do is shut me down
I can’t keep taking hits like this
My heart is breaking
I didny think loving you
Would be so much work
I’m just trying to love you

4.23.19

~PJ~

Day 23. I can’t even give you a story in the poem. Guess taking trips down memory lane really woke something in me write. Enjoy! God Bless

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The Past

I don’t want a reason to feel…
I’m tired of going back and forth
About you.
With my heart.
I just don’t want to think about you at all
I want you to stay in my past.
Why why
Am I still thinking about you in my present?
I don’t want to think about you.
I don’t want to feel anything
When you come to mind.
I want you to stay in my past
Where all my mistakes live

12.8.17

~PJ~
Day 20. A blast from the past when came across the poem. Was just telling my friend its good see where I was back then. Seem come a long way. Do enjoy.

Posted in 2019, Love, My Love Journey, Relatonships

My Love Journey P.3

How do you know you love a person? Or what you feel is Love and not Lust.

I ask a close friend these questions, and she gave me a good answer. She truly had me thinking about it. Have we made a decision in the past about who we love or telling a person we love them because we thought what we felt was love? I know it’s easy to say you love a person, but the action does speak louder than words.

I’m still on my love journey for the ones who were with me for a while and for the ones who haven’t. I started this post back in 2011 or 2013. And taking breaks from them as well as blogging. I have returned with more questions and thoughts as well. So hoping to stay on track with them this goes around. Love is a beautiful thing, don’t you think? Do let me know about love/lust. Until next time. God Bless

Posted in 2019, Heart, Love, Love Journey, love thought, My Love Journey, My Love Journey Thought, Relatonships

Love Thought

Are we really basing love from romantic novels? I love to read them, don’t get me wrong. But let’s talk reality love is work. I feel that the problem for most people now a day. Marriage ain’t lasting because we ready to throw in the towel and walk away. We not fighting for our relationships. Are we really becoming statistics on marriages failing in today society? One day I love you and next, I hate you. Love is amazing, beautiful even. But if you not loving yourself you missing out on so much. Sometimes reality need sink in and open our eyes and heart.

So many things to consider and wonder while on this love journey of mine. I can’t be the only one that thinks this way. What comes to Y’all mind?

Posted in 2019, Love, Love Journey, love thought, My Love Journey, Relatonships

Love Thought

When dating why do we take so much crap from them? Is it cause we truly believe we deserve it. Are is it cuz we think they the one for us. Are we setting ourselves up to be mistreated later down the road? We need to know what abuse is when dating, so we know our cue step back.

As you all know I’m on love journey. This thought came to me and I was like I need to write and share with Y’all. Would love hear what Y’all think. God Bless

Posted in 2019, Love Journey, love thought, My Journey, My Love Journey, Relatonships

Love Thought

Just because you’re single that doesn’t mean it’s due to your problems, just because they’re getting married doesn’t mean they’re getting blessed.

Wow messages speaks so much to me. The thoughts that runs through our mind when it seem like everyone around us is getting marry and having a family. And I’m still like woah when will it be me. Anyone else every felt like that?

Good Evening, I pray all is well and message speaks to someone soul/heart. God is truly good all the time. God Bless

Posted in 2019, Heart, Love, Love Journey, My Journey, My Love Journey, Relatonships

My Love Journey P.2

I did a post earlier for my Love Journey and shared a song about How can we Mend Broken Heart. Funny thing, I may change sides along my journey because I’m learning new things about myself every day. And hey I’m a psychology major, so give me a break. Lol

Can we truly mend a broken heart? I mean really mend it? Will it always be whole or do we actually have to work at it long as we discover who they truly or. I have many poems that will make you wonder and many quotes and question that will be like umm maybe she got a point or you might be just as confused as I am. Hell, I don’t know.

  • One of my favorite statements came from my cousin a few months ago . How true could it possibly be? It takes a strong woman to love a torn man, but a stronger man to love a scorned woman; two strong-minded people can’t be together, because they will always be bumping heads. When you find the person who is weak in the areas where you are strong, strong in the area where you are weak, then that’s compatibility! This makes it a stronger relationship.

This lovely status caught my attention. Makes me wonder how true it could be. I done met a few men in my life that was either torn or broken whatever you want to call it. Maybe I was meant to heal him for another woman to deserve him. Maybe I was meant to get as close as I did with the next one, but not really have him as mine. I wish I had known that before I fell in love with him. The last one I didn’t give a chance because my heart was trying to come to the grip of losing the last one, that held my heart so tight, that made it so hard to walk away. So the next time one walks in my life I’m prepared, how about you? What’s y’all thoughts?