Are we really basing love from romantic novels? I love to read them, don’t get me wrong. But let’s talk reality love is work. I feel that the problem for most people now a day. Marriage ain’t lasting because we ready to throw in the towel and walk away. We not fighting for our relationships. Are we really becoming statistics on marriages failing in today society? One day I love you and next, I hate you. Love is amazing, beautiful even. But if you not loving yourself you missing out on so much. Sometimes reality need sink in and open our eyes and heart.
So many things to consider and wonder while on this love journey of mine. I can’t be the only one that thinks this way. What comes to Y’all mind?
What a powerful message to not share with you all. It seems some of us make a lot of these mistakes when starting out and some still make mistakes even when been at it for a while.
As you all know I’m on My love Journey and still learning stuff every day. From what I been through to stuff I watch happen to people I love. Do share y’all thoughts with me.
SINGLE LADIES🌺You might be too heavy in the eyes of some men, but too petite for others; too smart for an uneducated man, but not smart enough for an intellectual; too wise for a foolish man, but not wise enough for a man of wisdom, too talkative for a shy man, but too quiet for an outspoken man; too short to reach the man of your dreams, but too tall to lower your standards, too conceited for humble man, but too passive for a man of confidence. Keep in mind that you will appear differently in one man’s eyes compared to another’s, but in the eyes of the RIGHT man, you will be PERFECT – for Him! #holdon #yourebeautiful #besoencouraged💃🏾❤️💕
Good Afternoon, I pray all is well with each and everyone of you all. God Bless
As I continue on my love journey, for inspire with another message to share with y’all. Would love hear what you all may think. God Bless
How can we love someone, when we cant even love ourselves. So many of us going in and our of relationships like its nothing. Some even going back and forth to same one they left. Have we really forgot our worth?
So many thoughts running thru my head. It’s been awhile since I shared some love thoughts with y’all. I would love hear what yall think. Will next time. God Bless:)
What happen to loving you, discovering you before you decide to love someone else .
So many thoughts running thru my head. It’s been awhile since I shared some love thoughts with y’all. I would love hear what y’all think. Will next time. God Bless:)
I know it’s being awhile since I posted on topic. I have being thinking how word my thoughts. Do ya’ll believe it’s ok for judge okay a divorce if the man says he can’t find his wife? I’m not saying woman don’t do the same tactics. I just heard it have happen the way I mention it. And both cases the male lied about not knowing where there spouse at. And yes both of them ended up getting remarried. I believe it should be investigated into more. Bad enough we making it easy get marry, not we giving them pat on back out of marriage. What are ya’ll thoughts on the matter?
On dis Journey of love. I have question myself so many times. I even thought I gave up on love. When things get difficult I tend to just throw in towel. Forget trying fix it. Love shouldnt be so difficult. I cant say much on relationship. We tend go thru so much, some for the better and some not. Is the journey to love surpose to shape us?
So many unanswer question that runs thru my mind. I tend to question myself.
On dis Journey a few things have come up. So lets talk about how and why we stay. Is security a reason to stay In a relationship? It was a random conversation with my mom dis morning. Someone she work for says they spouse is leaving them 1/3 of house when the time comes. Lets just say she not happy about that 3, she believe she should have half. My question is why do we stay when things arent at it best? I know we shouldn’t give up when things go bad. But sometimes it’s more of hassle to stay. Some even stay for the purpose of being content. Does that mean they got use to the lifestyle and scared start over?
While on My Journey, I have decided to take a break from love and relationships. I’m not saying or denying that I may give upon love. Some things seem to come running atcha full speed. It makes you question everything you think you may feel for a person. Sometimes reality does a number on you and shake everything within. I believe love is a beautiful thing and does different things for us. All I’m saying I may need to rethink everything from here on out. I can write poetry with so much feelings and emotions, but I can’t lie. I can’t tell a person how I feel without my poetry. Does that mean I’m not sure on my heart? Does it mean what I feel isn’t real? My Love Journey may not help anyone or it may. I only can share what I feel and what I have learn by observing from watching people who have love like no other who have been together for a lifetime and who have failed.
During my Journey recently a lot of different things have come to my knowledge. As I was having conversation with my best friend about her journey. Im not big on saying follow your heart. For the fact, at times my heart and head are saying different things. Deep down I feel like I’m betraying myself. What I mean part of you want to forgive and the other half want to hold your ground and move on and just stay guarded. We got to know when to do what’s best for us. Sometimes bn guarded can do more harm to us then heal. Something I’m still learning.
As of the other day, I had to deal with someone heartache and them doing what they thought might may make them feel better but blew up in they face. Love is a serious matter, and when you not ready move on from your past. Don’t bring drama and destruction into another person who is willing and ready for love and relationship. If you believe you need to feel petty because they broke your heart, please don’t do it. I know better,so I always ask a person will it make you feel good or not? Well let’s just say things wasn’t good. No person is every worth you thinking you should forget your worth or thinking to take your life. Till the next post…