Dating with chronic illness. When do you let them know about it? I always have kept it to myself for so many years. The last person that was in my life understood what I went thru because he had someone in his family with the same illness. Do living with sickness stop yall from dating? Everyone doesn’t deserve to know. And everyone cant handle just what we go through on a daily. I have debated with this question in my head for so long. I’m at the point and saying screw love and my journey. I have had two friends tell me I’m wrong to think like that. Who knows maybe they’re right. I can’t hide behind my illness.
~TO BE CONTINUED~
When looking for love and dating. How do yall feel about them calling you sweetie, baby, sexy, etc? I’m not fond of it, just be honest. You don’t know me so don’t come at me with sweet talk. I feel like we have let them pass because we think its cute are whatever reason may be. Sweet talking doesn’t work on me. What happens to talk to the opposite sex with respect? If you correct them they want to call you a female dog. Why should I lose my worth because they have lost their dang mind on the correct way speak to me with some sense. Am I wrong for thinking like that. Fellas how do yall feel about woman calling yall sexy, handsome, etc?
Does love truly find us in odd situations? Do we find it or go looking for it? Do we wait? I was always told We first got to help ourselves. Is that true when looking for love? Or does that mean we should discover who we are, or get ourselves out into the dating world? Can we truly find love online? I decided to give it a try. I don’t have high hopes for it. It’s good and bad in every situation when dealing with dating. How do you know when to go for it or step away. I’m putting my FAITH in GOD. He’s going to lead me. I also wonder if love could be really for me.
~TO BE CONTINUE~
Getting my toes wet and seen what it’s all about. Join me on my Journey, do share some of your experience are thoughts with me. Until next time. God Bless
How do you know you love a person? Or what you feel is Love and not Lust.
I ask a close friend these questions, and she gave me a good answer. She truly had me thinking about it. Have we made a decision in the past about who we love or telling a person we love them because we thought what we felt was love? I know it’s easy to say you love a person, but the action does speak louder than words.
I’m still on my love journey for the ones who were with me for a while and for the ones who haven’t. I started this post back in 2011 or 2013. And taking breaks from them as well as blogging. I have returned with more questions and thoughts as well. So hoping to stay on track with them this goes around. Love is a beautiful thing, don’t you think? Do let me know about love/lust. Until next time. God Bless
I did a post earlier for my Love Journey and shared a song about How can we Mend Broken Heart. Funny thing, I may change sides along my journey because I’m learning new things about myself every day. And hey I’m a psychology major, so give me a break. Lol
Can we truly mend a broken heart? I mean really mend it? Will it always be whole or do we actually have to work at it long as we discover who they truly or. I have many poems that will make you wonder and many quotes and question that will be like umm maybe she got a point or you might be just as confused as I am. Hell, I don’t know.
- One of my favorite statements came from my cousin a few months ago . How true could it possibly be? It takes a strong woman to love a torn man, but a stronger man to love a scorned woman; two strong-minded people can’t be together, because they will always be bumping heads. When you find the person who is weak in the areas where you are strong, strong in the area where you are weak, then that’s compatibility! This makes it a stronger relationship.
This lovely status caught my attention. Makes me wonder how true it could be. I done met a few men in my life that was either torn or broken whatever you want to call it. Maybe I was meant to heal him for another woman to deserve him. Maybe I was meant to get as close as I did with the next one, but not really have him as mine. I wish I had known that before I fell in love with him. The last one I didn’t give a chance because my heart was trying to come to the grip of losing the last one, that held my heart so tight, that made it so hard to walk away. So the next time one walks in my life I’m prepared, how about you? What’s y’all thoughts?
I started blogging a few years ago on Xanga basically on my Journey on LOVE but it ended up discovering who I was with all my trials and tribulations. I have have been here for a while now and so I decided to bring my other blog here little by little. I have poetry and questions about love and I know for a fact I’m not the only person dealing with LOVE. So hope you all enjoy it and if you have questions or comments do ask and put your inputs here. Love to see where everyone has to say. I’ll be posting something here every day or every other day depends how hectic my week is going. Being that I’m psychology major and I’m either having a talk with someone for myself meaning getting advice or giving it to a friend or reading different blogs. I love to learn more, you can never learn enough, don’t let anyone tell you differently.
I have been through a lot with this word and love. I done gave up and close my heart, but I remember that God didn’t give up on me (us). So why should we give up and become cold? A man and woman will let us down, but he wouldn’t. I know to be in a relationship of any kind. Such as marriage, dating, etc. Yes, we going to go through something. Love is patient. I need to learn to have that and I’m pretty sure I’m not the only person out there who doesn’t have it. I have come to conclusion. I don’t have any whatsoever. I got common sense to know when to let go and walk away. Some peoples don’t want help and want to stay in the past. If being betrayed, angry and so far, make you happy then more power to you.
The song I would l like to share today will be song redid by Ruben Studdard and question to go with it. Can a broken heart be healed? As he sings “How can I mend a broken heart”? Something to think about, because I have learned from this song and poem shall be posted shortly.
Not sure if the video will load again, blogging from the phone.
After having trouble trying to reblog my work, and just recopy everything. I decided to go this way. After bringing love lesson/love thought to the blog. I was like why not bring My Love Journey postback, it been a long time and I wouldn’t mind sharing them again and getting feedback.
I recently have learned a life lesson on what my words could do to someone I truly love and want in my life for along time. On dis Love Journey it’s hard to acknowledge just what a person is feeling when it comes to you and your needs. I have been in love with a guy going on 12 years off and on. We finally got the chance to really get to know one another but I still keep my heart guarded because I feel he does the same. I’m a very sarcastic person, and I thought he could tell the difference. No matter how long you know a person, you still have be careful how you word things. You can lose them or push them farther away and have to work getting them back to where you work so hard to let there guards down.
On dis journey I have come across loving a man that was so broken that it took all of me to get his armour down. I have come to understand some or just for a season to heal so we can learn a lesson or two. I’m not going lie I made the mistake and fell a few times and got burn. I also have learn that some are out to use what you have to give. My Journey with love has been very bumpy.
Has been just that over the years. I have learn so much from my mistakes, the joys, pain, even the mishaps ( such as not seen what I had right in front of me before it was too late)..
My heart beating to so many beats..
You got me confused & I
Cant take it…
I’m grown now.. so the
Past will never repeat…
Ill always have feelings for you..
But you seem be the same
From my past…
We not young anymore..
So if you trying to play
Please walk away now
And let me be..
I never thought I catch
Feelings for you.
Never imagine I’ll keep
Thinking of you..
I felt so hurt when I heard
You had a little one…
Thats when I knew I didnt
Mean anything to you
I’m over it..
Some days it still hurt,
But not as much as before..
Now you have another blessing..
I always knew you be a
I saw so much in you..
You seem to take my breath a way…
Your smile is so amazing…
One of a kind, but already
Full with your family.
Boy you got a piece of me.
I hate it cause every time you
I knew my heart will be broken..
Why can’t you see.
I’m one of a kind?
In due time..
Ill stop caring for you.
For blessing me….
See the real you..
I have strength to walk away…
Before you do me harm
I have started writing again. Actually wrote it while in hospital..I usually like to think and let stuff sit on my mind and heart for awhile. Dedicated to my love journey do enjoy.. let me know what you think.. God Bless:)
Will change title, still thinking on it:)