I know it’s being awhile since I posted on topic. I have being thinking how word my thoughts. Do ya’ll believe it’s ok for judge okay a divorce if the man says he can’t find his wife? I’m not saying woman don’t do the same tactics. I just heard it have happen the way I mention it. And both cases the male lied about not knowing where there spouse at. And yes both of them ended up getting remarried. I believe it should be investigated into more. Bad enough we making it easy get marry, not we giving them pat on back out of marriage. What are ya’ll thoughts on the matter?
Category: My Love Journey Thought
My Love Journey Thought…
On dis Journey of love. I have question myself so many times. I even thought I gave up on love. When things get difficult I tend to just throw in towel. Forget trying fix it. Love shouldnt be so difficult. I cant say much on relationship. We tend go thru so much, some for the better and some not. Is the journey to love surpose to shape us?
So many unanswer question that runs thru my mind. I tend to question myself.
My Love Journey Thought…
On dis Journey a few things have come up. So lets talk about how and why we stay. Is security a reason to stay In a relationship? It was a random conversation with my mom dis morning. Someone she work for says they spouse is leaving them 1/3 of house when the time comes. Lets just say she not happy about that 3, she believe she should have half. My question is why do we stay when things arent at it best? I know we shouldn’t give up when things go bad. But sometimes it’s more of hassle to stay. Some even stay for the purpose of being content. Does that mean they got use to the lifestyle and scared start over?
My Love Journey Thought…
While on My Journey, I have decided to take a break from love and relationships. I’m not saying or denying that I may give upon love. Some things seem to come running atcha full speed. It makes you question everything you think you may feel for a person. Sometimes reality does a number on you and shake everything within. I believe love is a beautiful thing and does different things for us. All I’m saying I may need to rethink everything from here on out. I can write poetry with so much feelings and emotions, but I can’t lie. I can’t tell a person how I feel without my poetry. Does that mean I’m not sure on my heart? Does it mean what I feel isn’t real? My Love Journey may not help anyone or it may. I only can share what I feel and what I have learn by observing from watching people who have love like no other who have been together for a lifetime and who have failed.
My Love Journey Thought….
During my Journey recently a lot of different things have come to my knowledge. As I was having conversation with my best friend about her journey. Im not big on saying follow your heart. For the fact, at times my heart and head are saying different things. Deep down I feel like I’m betraying myself. What I mean part of you want to forgive and the other half want to hold your ground and move on and just stay guarded. We got to know when to do what’s best for us. Sometimes bn guarded can do more harm to us then heal. Something I’m still learning.
My Love Journey Thought…
As of the other day, I had to deal with someone heartache and them doing what they thought might may make them feel better but blew up in they face. Love is a serious matter, and when you not ready move on from your past. Don’t bring drama and destruction into another person who is willing and ready for love and relationship. If you believe you need to feel petty because they broke your heart, please don’t do it. I know better,so I always ask a person will it make you feel good or not? Well let’s just say things wasn’t good. No person is every worth you thinking you should forget your worth or thinking to take your life. Till the next post…
My Love Journey Thoughts..
With My Love Journey I have learn that in any relationship we must all learn that saying sorry will not fix everything. We don’t know how much our words can cut someone. And to be honest I hate saying sorry it seems like I’m weak and I know deep down It doesn’t. Some say it just to say it. But I’m the type of person who says it and mean it from deep down. We must know when to say it and what it truly means to say you sorry. Everyone isn’t going take heed to apology because we don’t know what they done went thru in previous relationships. I don’t like people saying sorry when it comes to me, because they tend to mess up again. I guess y’all can see where I’m coming from with dis post. So let’s just be cautious with what we say to the ones we love .
My Love Journey Thoughts…
I recently have learned a life lesson on what my words could do to someone I truly love and want in my life for along time. On dis Love Journey it’s hard to acknowledge just what a person is feeling when it comes to you and your needs. I have been in love with a guy going on 12 years off and on. We finally got the chance to really get to know one another but I still keep my heart guarded because I feel he does the same. I’m a very sarcastic person, and I thought he could tell the difference. No matter how long you know a person, you still have be careful how you word things. You can lose them or push them farther away and have to work getting them back to where you work so hard to let there guards down.
My Love Journey Thoughts…
On dis journey I have come across loving a man that was so broken that it took all of me to get his armour down. I have come to understand some or just for a season to heal so we can learn a lesson or two. I’m not going lie I made the mistake and fell a few times and got burn. I also have learn that some are out to use what you have to give. My Journey with love has been very bumpy.
My Love Journey Thoughts…
Has been just that over the years. I have learn so much from my mistakes, the joys, pain, even the mishaps ( such as not seen what I had right in front of me before it was too late)..
Poets Afterthought 