I done said it many times before, but just in case you havent went back to read the other post with the same title. You’ll see the title more than once, but you’ll see a number at the end of each JOURNEY! On My Love Journey, has taken me through somethings, and I have learned somethings as well. When I was in Middle School I had a friend who was in the same group with me I believe Future Teachers of Alabama, I think that’s what it was called, or was it High School? Who Knows.
Anyways how many time’s or have you ever heard YOU CAN’T LOVE SOMEONE YOU NEVER SEEN? That can mean in person or havent laid your eyes on them by seen a picture,video chat or whatever. Some may even say it’s not normal to meet someone offline and to be in love with them? Hmmm…. Well I have heard that a few times, and have argue my case as well. Now back to my story at hand, since this is my blog for thoughts and whatnot I guess its okay for me to change subject as I please long as I don’t lose you all in the process. My friend mom told me and a few other young ladies that she met her husband online and well you know the rest, they married of course. My thing is love is everywhere, we just got to be willingly to have an open mind to it. Sometimes we miss out on that opportunity and someone good can slip right through your fingers. Now I’m not saying we should all be open-minded to founding our true love online. I was actually going to make this into a book and I might still do. I have talk to different people, on how they met they soul mate. I have an older cousin who said that her husband she met him in the club when she went for the last time. She stop going of course and gave her life to GOD, and he still wanted to be with her he follow her soon after. God knows what he doing! As you take my JOURNEY though My Love Journey you can see where I have been and where I’m at now. I honestly believe can’t nobody tell us who we can and can’t love. Thats whats wrong with a lot of people now, we telling them who they can and can’t love. Sometimes we have to learn from our own mistakes, to see it for ourself. I actually have a friend who had to learn a few of them. I do have permission to share they story on my blog, since it will eventually get use for my book. I will not share they names, but will tell you what I learn on they LOVE JOURNEY!
I believe that all I will say on this post since I have little one’s calling me and Discussion Board due tonight! I love to hear any input and feedback from you all. You all know I’m curious as to what you all think on anything I post! Do Have A Bless Saturday! God Bless 🙂
Poets Afterthought 
People say you cant meet your spouse in a bar, that relationships made in bars fail..My husband and I met in a bar, 12 years later we are poving what you say in this post, God can lead you to you mate anytime, anywhere, anyhow. Good post PJ..I like it.
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Thank you for the been the first person to say somethng in the thread! Yes, God can truly lead you to them. Its good to see ya’ll still together and going strong. Long as GOD is in the home, everything is going to be alright. God Bless You:
and thank you, good to know I didn’t confuse you with the post 🙂
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You can never talk enough about “love”
Keep up the good work
God Bless
susie
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Thank You Susie,
You so right we can never talk enough about love! God Bless 🙂
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I think it’s possible to meet our soulmate anywhere, if it’s the right person we will find them! Well, you know my story, I won’t get into it all here but I met my husband Dave when we were 16 years old. That was young, but we didn’t get married until several years later. We would still be together, if evil cancer hadn’t stepped in. (Sorry, don’t want to make this sad, so that’s all I better say) That book you plan to write is so exciting PJ, it will be a winner I just know. Looking forward to more of your Love Journey! 🙂
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Gabby,
Thank you for your comment and I do understand! You know if I hadn’t read your post I would’ve known your story. Wow 16 huh? thats good age to actually know what LOVE is and what it truly about. I was still debating about doing the book, but I believe I should still go for it. I can’t wait to share moreon My Love Journey! I need to get back to asking questions instead of just sharing my poetry all the time! God Bless You 🙂
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I must tend to agree with you on this one 🙂 I wanted to let you know that I nominated you for the Candle Lighter Award and you should get a pingback to my post. If you don’t, you can find it here:
http://terri0729.wordpress.com/2012/01/07/handing-it-off-to-my-dream-catchers/
Grab the award and post it. No requirement that I know of on how many people you give it to
Blessings, Terri
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Terri,
Thank you for commenting and congrats on your nomination. I’m honor your would consider me for this award 🙂 God Bless 🙂
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Journey, you are so VERY right in saying we cannot be told who to love and who not to love. For example, I love all of you guys out there in my online writer’s/blogger’s community! We share our souls with each other. What’s not to love, right? I think your book is a great idea. I can see you on Oprah next year, no kidding! If you combine your stories in such a way as to keep the readers on their toes and included really unusual yet heart-warming stories (what about stories where the tradition of loving and marrying folks they met unseen got passed down in the family, so to speak?), you will have a sure-fire, runaway best seller. Prayers and best wishes, dear journey. Oh, by the way, your 22 year old brother has already begun posting again on his blog, has started following my blog; and I have started following and commenting on his. Hooray!
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Granbee,
Thank you for your encouragment! Yes, I’m so happy, he has been showing me his poems before he post. We have that thing we do before we share with the world.lol! He seem to catch my typo’s when I let him check my work! Exactly, ya’ll have been with me through hard times.Thats what I plan on doing, more to come this coming year. You seem to know what to say to just push me little more with every post! God Bless You 🙂
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I agree with you, in finding love we can never say where and when, most of the times the relationship gets longer depends on how you understand each other… thanks for sharing this one PJ, by the way how are you?
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Thank You for asking how I’m doing. Just headache right now which is not good 😦 How or you? and thank you for sharing your input with My Love Journey!I agree with you, if we can’t understand one another, no point in going into relationship! God Bless 🙂
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We grow in love and mature in it as we discover what “TRUE LOVE” is when we are in love. We value it when we recognize what it isn’t. Thanks for sharing your personal journey and thoughts about it 😀
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Well said! Technically not My Personal Journey just yet. I was inspired with this post this morning, and I feel bad I have been neglecting the Love Journey! I see I need to rename some catty, My Love Journey/Love Journey! I see I have my work cut out tonight! lol You welcome and thank you for your inputs. I have shared some of My Love Journey in the past with the questions and poems. I hope that made some sense! lol God Bless You 🙂
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Arranged marriages can be successful and like you said love is love… we can’t predict success. 😉
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Eliz,
You know I havent thought about the arranges marriage, thank you for pointing that out. If I knew someone who have been in that perdictment would love to talk with them about that. I agree we can’t predict success.. God Bless 🙂
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So true so true my friend, I guess thats why they call it soul mate.Its not something we can see, so it’s not obvious that we have to see for it to click the chemistry.Some times you need to dare to love.Cowards never make it in the game of love.(Just my thoughts):)
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I like that Gethappy, thank you so much for been the first guy to share your thoughts on My Love Journey! I was hoping to get a male opinion and out look on things. God Bless You:)
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I think you said it all, in a nutshell! Who can determine our soul mates for life? It’s up to us to know it, to feel it, and no one else. You made some very good points in this post, PJ, really all life lessons. I, especially, liked the comment about love slipping through, if our minds aren’t open enough, which is very true. I don’t know if you saw this post of mine from November, so I’m sharing it with you, only because my hubby and I met in a funny way. Here’s the link: http://lscotthoughts.com/2011/11/05/our-story.
I hope you enjoy it and I’m on to your next post! Hugs!
It just goes to show you that love happens anywhere and virtually, everywhere! 🙂
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Lauren,
I so can’t wait to read your story! Think I go read it first and come back and comment afterwards! lol
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I love your comment, so glad you left the link so I could read all about it! What amazing way to meet the love of your life! God Bless 🙂
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Reblogged this on poeticjourney251 and commented:
Another My Love Journey post, Do Enjoy! God Bless 🙂
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I agree pj.. Love is a feeling. You have to be open minded. You can definitely have feeling for someone you meet online.
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Hey J,
ty for stopping by and sharing your thoughts and opinion on the subject at had. I agree we do have to be open mnded when it comes to love. Sometimes it stares us right in the face and we miss it. I do hope all is well on your end! God Bless 🙂
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All is good now 🙂 Thanks for asking PJ and many many blessings right back to you. This is a very good post (topic) to speak of. I am glad that you re-posted it for those of us that did not get to read it the first time around. 🙂
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You very welcome, 🙂 Im glad you got a chance to catch it this time around, and you so right its a good topic to speak on! Truly does give us somehting to think about. You hear so many stories of people meeting someone online and whatnot. Hope 2 see you in more of My Love Journey post. God Bless 🙂
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well I hear that a lot some say I might of met my wife but God tells I not ready for her when we have the character for marriage the trust and responsbility from God I think he will introduce me to my wife and I will know I have feel in love quite a few times and fell out of love alot but I know have a foundation with God so the women who comes into my life will be my life long partner to eternity
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I’ve been in love three times, like really IN LOVE. Unfortunately, those do not include the man I was going to marry following my divorce, but I digress. I always fell head over heels with “bad boys” and was completely the opposite from them. I think I’m attracted to the sense of adventure they can lead me into. I knew my ex husband from high school. The funny thing is I never thought had was attractive until seeing him a few years later. Then he was everything lol.
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I believe we all go thru bad boy stage. I know it did when i was younger. That’s odd when it hit us like that after many years later. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I need bring these post back. God Bless
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Yes you do!! Very interesting to see everyone’s different experiences! Great read!
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