Hello and Welcome to My Love Journey, if you new make sure to check the other post out with the same title just different number.
Today my question is well you might laugh how I got inspired to ask this question, but hey don’t judge me. I was watching the movie LegallyBlonde, must admit it was one of my favorite movies. 🙂 Have you ever change to be with someone? If you seen the movie you know what exactly I’m talking about. So many time’s, different one’s made me feel like I had to change, but deep down I knew I was comfortable been who I was and not who they wanted me to be. Before I came to WordPress, I use to be on xanga. I read a few blogs with different one’s talking about how they had to change. Some change their looks, felt like they had to lose weight to be with someone, had to lose there V just so they could keep the person they wanted and believe that felt the way as they did. I believe the only person we need to change for is ourself and God and nobody else. I can understand you change when you finally see what they was saying but you just couldn’t grip the reality of it.
I love to hear from my fellow followers, so do share your opinion/thoughts on this situation. I surely can’t wait to hear from ya’ll. If I have forgotten something, I make sure to comment to your question.
Poets Afterthought 
I haven’t ever changed to please anyone else. I was blessed with Dave, who never wanted me to change a thing about me. This was an interesting question PJ, I got a smile you were inspired by that movie! 🙂 In my honest opinion, we never should change our true and real selves. We would be a fake person, so how is some guy supposed to know who the real person is? Always stay true to ourselves I say! I agree with you PJ that we shouldn’t change except for ourself or God. 🙂
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Gabby,
I so love your response my friend:) Well I’m glad you smiled and didn’t laugh about me getting inspired about the question. I’m glad you thought it was interesting question. God Bless 🙂
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I am inspired with the question PJ, have I? well as of the moment I honestly don’t have someone who make me change for him, but looking forward for it ciz I think it is the time to make a move for my personal life after all I am not getting any younger hahahaha
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Loved reading your post … gotta tell you I loved the movie too 🙂
As for changing one self to be part of something or impress someone then nope those who really like you will accept you just the way you are…
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Thank You Soma, good to hear another person love the movie as well. And thank you for sharing your opinions and thoughts. I truly love what you had to say! God Bless 🙂
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PJ, I agree with you and Gabby! No one should change, just to please another person. Be true to yourself and that special person will love you for who you are, not who they want you to be. If that’s what they require, then it’s time to move on… 🙂
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So true in deed Lauren! 🙂
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Change is a necessity for progress in life, not a requirement to please someone. If Someone can’t love you the way you are, there is no guarantee they will love you even if you change
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Russell good to see you in this post, and you so right! Thank you for sharing your opinions and thoughts with us! God Bless 🙂
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I agree that you should never change just to make someone else happy but I would do it if I knew my actions were hurting that person or people around me.
I say, concentrate on what’s important, not on what’s superficial. If a guy harps on about your weight, hair, boob size or whatever, he’s being superficial and it says a lot about his character. Of course, for some women there’s a fine line between what’s important and what’s not… ;P
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Hey Nisha,
good to see you here sharing your opinions with us. I love what you had to say and you made some good points! And it truly does say a lot about his character when his being superficial. 🙂
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Right on, Sistah Journey! We should listen respectfully to the ideas of others, pray carefully and quiety and peacefully about those ideas, then wait for the leading of, and confirmation from, the Holy Spirit about what to do with those ideas. Sometimes God is speaking through friends and family and even strangers to us. He will let us know if this is the case.
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Granbee,
So true Granbee, we must wait to here from him when its that case. Thank you for coming through and sharing your opinions/thoughts. 🙂 Sometimes it takes someone different just to open our eye’s up to the change we need or to whats been missing
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I love that movie too because it does speak to that side of all of us… It is a great lesson to learn.
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Good to know when more people like that movie as well. And you right about it been a great lesson to learn! God Bless 🙂
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