Hello and Welcome to My Love Journey, if you new make sure to check the other post out with the same title just different number.
I know its been awhile since I post in My Love Journey. I’m hoping to have more post for you all in the near future while I’m taking a break from school. This question is close to home with me. I like to know what you all think about the matter at hand. Example: If you talking to someone and you have feelings for them. You both have feelings for one another, but you in different places. What if someone close to you comes in the picture and sweep you off your feet? Would you go into the relationship all the way and let the other person go? Or would you do the relationship with them and still keep the other person in your life as well? Would you tell them you met someone or not? Would you be scared you would lose them if you told them you have someone new in your life? So many questions right? I tend to over think somethings, and don’t like to leave anything out when I do post for My Love Journey.
I love to hear from my fellow followers, so do share your opinion/thoughts on this situation. I surely can’t wait to hear from ya’ll. If I have forgotten something, I make sure to comment to your question.
Poets Afterthought 
This one is hard for me to answer, since I am with my soul mate 🙂 I would say, I’d go with the one I felt the strongest about. I think being honest is the most important thing. I wonder if anyone else will think up a better answer 🙂 mine is kind of wishy washy 😉
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Autumn,
I like what you had to say, so thank you for sharing yout thoughts. I believe you right we should go with the person we have the strongest feelings for. But I don’t believe its right to not let a person know you have someone in your life. Thats the part they got me feeling not so good about alll this. I guess it should touch me that they don’t want to lose me! Idk, maybe I’m wrong and bn selfish. 😦 As you can see I’m confuse
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I see Autumn beat me to this post, she gave a really good answer I must say. Oh no, you’re having the problem in your own life PJ. Well, I would have to say, be honest and be with the one you have the strongest feelings for. Why can’t you kind of be dating the both of them? You aren’t being selfish, it’s a confusing one to say the least. My answers and thoughts may not be the greatest with this one. You know I was with Dave at 16 years old, but I had been dating a guy and did dump him the minute Dave walked into my life. It was easy for me, because I had that strong connection right away with Dave.The other guy was kind of a jerk to be honest, which a lot of the guys are as teenagers! Please do keep me posted on this one sweetie, I want the best for you and you to be happy. What a turn this is in your Love Journey and I am so hoping more readers chime in with their thoughts! Hugs 🙂
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Gabby,
Yep your sis did beat you here, but I knew you wasn’t far behind. I will keep you posted! 🙂 I’m always glad to get your thoughts and opinions when it comes to My Love Journey. I’m glad to get all feedbacks from my fellow followers. Never know who needs it. I’m not with anyone, I’m just talking to someone whose bn in my life for a few yrs. If you can remember some of the poems dealing with love he was the inspiration in them all. Thank you for your kind words, truly means a lot to me. I have tried talking to other peeps in the past, because I felt like I was over him, but my heart always went back to him. Thoughts and all. You was bless to have your late husband at young age. Thank you for sharing once again. God Bless You 🙂
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In my opinion you should be honest with both persons. Let them know you aren’t ready to make any commitments and you want to get to know both of them. But remember that two people aren’t going to sit around waiting for you to make a decision between them. You may end up losing one or both to someone else. The reason I suggest this if one or both are sincere in their feelings for you, they will wait and give you your space. They will be patient and may show you not by material things, but by the heart that they are the right one for you. I kid you not this is a chance you would be taking. I’m only suggesting. I’m not an expert the ultimate choice is yours. 🙂 Oh and nothing good comes out of hiding, sneaking and lying.
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinion on My Love Journey, every advice helps. I believe in bn honest all the way. I don’t see the point in lying! If you lie once you have to lie to keep it going. You hit the nail on the head with everything you said to me, so I like to say thank you! 🙂 God Bless YOu 🙂
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You’re welcome. 🙂
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I was in a situtation like that not too long ago and we both are in different places in life and I decided it was best to not purse anything with them. The only thing that’s different is I haven’t been sweep off my feet by anyone. But if I was to be I would take things slow with the other person and purse things. If I got into the relationship with this person I would need to make sure the feelings I had feelings for the other person is not there because it wouldn’t be fair to start a relationship knowing I have feelings for another individual. Yes, I would keep the other person in my life I had feelings for as long everything understood between us I see nothing wrong . I hope this helps you out.
Poetic_Butterfly
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Miss Poeticbutterfly,
thank you for stopping by and sharing your opinion and thoughts on the matter at hands, I love to hear from anyone who can truly related or just want to drop some wisdom for me. I must admit not sweep off my ft just yet, who knows I may never be. But I didnt want to be one sided with the question. I never know whose heart Ima touch with my question. God Bless 🙂
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Constantly listening for the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit and looking upon BOTH people with FIRST agape love/brotherly love and not rushing into anything or taking initiatives out of turn (or out of loneliness!) WILL reveal over time if either of these people will be a mate or a friend over the long haul.
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Well said, I’m actually learning that as well right now. Its crazy whats going on, but I know I need to go through it, so I can go into this book head on! Ty for sharing your opinions and thoughts with me! 🙂
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