My Love Journey – Page 6 – Poets Afterthought

My Love Journey P.10

Posted on 23 Jan 201230 Jul 2012 by poeticjourney

Hello and Welcome to My Love Journey, if you new make sure to check the other post out with the same title just different number.

Today my question is well you might laugh how I got inspired to ask this question, but hey don’t judge me. I was watching the movie LegallyBlonde, must admit it was one of my favorite movies. 🙂 Have you ever change to be with someone? If you seen the movie you know what exactly I’m talking about. So many time’s, different one’s made me feel like I had to change, but deep down I knew I was comfortable been who I was and not who they wanted me to be. Before I came to WordPress, I use to be on xanga. I read a few blogs with different one’s talking about how they had to change. Some change their looks, felt like they had to lose weight to be with someone, had to lose there V just so they could keep the person they wanted and believe that felt the way as they did. I believe the only person we need to change for is ourself and God and nobody else. I can understand you change when you finally see what they was saying but you just couldn’t grip the reality of it.

I love to hear from my fellow followers, so do share your opinion/thoughts on this situation. I surely can’t wait to hear from ya’ll. If I have forgotten something, I make sure to comment to your question.

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My Love Journey P.9

Posted on 21 Jan 201230 Jul 2012 by poeticjourney

Hello and Welcome to My Love Journey, if you new make sure to check the other post out with the same title just different number.

Well today my question is have your every felt like you just didn’t believe in love anymore for whatever reason? At one time when I was younger, I had completely gave up on love. Yes, I change that thinking real quick. The good LORD love me and he choose to send his son to die for me. Who am I to think I don’t believe in love. No matter what anyone does to you, don’t ever let them make you not believe in love. I know we go through so much in relationship or just dating and we feel ourself turn ice cold and just don’t believe that love is out there for us anymore. So have you ever felt that way before and if so what made you change that thinking? Sometimes its good to take a break from dating and just focus on yourself at time. First you got to love yourself before you can truly love anyone.

I even leave the link to the poem I wrote years ago call Don’t Believe: http://poeticjourney251.com/2011/10/29/dont-believe/

I know its been awhile since I did my love journey question, and I still have a few stories to share with you all. I love to hear from my followers. I so love to know your thoughts and opinions on anything I post. If you new at this post, do go to my categories and choose MY LOVE JOURNEY and read through. Something tells me I forgot something but if you bring it to my attention I make sure to answer in a comment!

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My Love Journey P.8

Posted on 13 Jan 201230 Jul 2012 by poeticjourney

Hello and Welcome to My Love Journey, if you new make sure to check the other post out with the same title just different number.

The question today is…. Do you believe in love at first sight! A old song comes to mind by Salvage Garden I knew I love you before i met you! Im inspired with the question for more then one reason! My dad knew he wanted to marry my mom the first date. They met in church. Something my mom said a few days ago when we was out. A woman had told her she was moving in with a guy she just met! Hmmmm….. Love to hear what you all think about the question. I can say so much, but meds calln me! I love to hear yall opinions,thoughts,stories. Will share another story once im home!

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My Love Journey P.7

Posted on 10 Jan 201211 Jan 2012 by poeticjourney

Even though I’m late with the post because I’m not feeling my best. If you knew to the post, You’ll see this post more than once, but with number at the end of it. 🙂 If you havent read the other post with the same title, please do check them out.

So the question today is WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU KNEW THE TRUTH ABOUT YOUR BESTFRIEND BETTER HALF? Would you keep it to yourself? I ask this question because I have been in this predicament a few times. I lost a friend in the process because of the truth. I have had other friends tell me they would want to know whats what. I never though I would lose a friendship over this, but sad to say I lost one and it’s not the same. Sad thing about it, we are related. I kept the truth to myself because she was so happy, but then it started eating me up and I finally decided to open my mouth. Guess I should’ve kept my mouth close huh?

I love to hear what you all think!

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My Love Journey P.6

Posted on 9 Jan 20129 Jan 2012 by poeticjourney

Before I get all into my homework and go to doctor. Do I truly need to repeat myself with this post every time. You’ll see the title more than once, but with a number after it. 🙂

My question for today is HOW CAN WE MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK THATS LONG DISTANCE? Many reasons to have one, could be cause of your job or school or you could be fighting overseas. Lets not forget internet dating as well. Since my last two post had something to do with online dating. If you havent check them out, make sure to make your way to p.5 and Love Story Journey.

Every since I was younger.. cough 🙂 I have heard this so many times from a simple-minded person of course. Thats it’s not right or possible to have long distance relationship. In some cases it may be true, because some can’t stay faithful to save they life. No trust in relationship, no point in having one. I have heard many stories of people breaking up because their spouse/girl friend/boyfriend or away from them. I have seen & heard so many staying true to their relationship. When we away from the one’s we love we tend to miss out on a lot of things. If we have little one’s we don’t get to see them grow up, or be there for them when they come into the world.

So do tell me what you think on the topic at hand today. I love to hear what you all think 🙂 Something tells me I forgot something, but if someone bring it to my attention I’ll just answer it in comment or whatnot. God Bless 🙂

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A Love Story Journey(true one)

Posted on 8 Jan 20129 Jan 2012 by poeticjourney

I heard from a good friend yesterday. Its hard when your partner in crime n another state. Yesterday I talk about internet.If you miss out on that post please do check out My Love Journey P.5! How did I forget to share her story. I can think of a few reasons, but I ‘ll let ya’ll be the judge. My friend met her soon to be ex. husband on MySpace. (yea who still use that site?) Not I! Anyways it started off as a friendship and move to dating soon after. Peoples what look good on the outside, doesn’t mean its good on the inside. I thought he was okay guy @ first, but he prove me wrong soon after. Have you ever heard don’t judge a book by its cover? How the hell did I let my guard down? Let me tell you probably because she had been through so much and to see her happy had me at ease. Back to the story at hand. Maybe he was to young to understand love & marriage is truly about. Sound like I’m making excuses for him. Snap Out Of Denial PJ! okay I’m getting a little carry away from my story.( sorry) He decides to pop the question and she accepted! 😦 <<<<< says it all how I felt. She find some letters and some pictures. Now if you got some stuff you don’t want your other half to see. Why keep it at all and leave it in your bags you give to the other person to hold? If you thinking like I’m thinking, we going to enjoy the love journey with me, if you not thinking like I’m thinking hmmm don’t know what to tell you. Phone call and its my friend crying, let me tell you we just had a girl day & we had good times, so I’m confuse on her crying. She letting me know I’m back on my way to your place. And shows up with all the evidence. (Engagement ring, letters). If you wondering why she marry him, that make two of us? lol This the friend I mention in yesterday post who have to learn on her own. I must say what a lesson & some drama she could’ve prevented if she listen to me 🙂 Anyways back to the story. HE DENIED ABOUT ALL THIS, YES, HE DID! If you wonder if he ever admitted to any of this. HELL NO! he said the woman he was going to marry was his cousin. OH YEA THE HELL HE DID! My friend and Ole girl had a talk & and she told it all. Did he admit, OH NO! Still all lies. Oh yea I almost forgot to let you know before they met online he was suppose to marry the other girl a few days later. OH YES! And would;ve had a child, but they lost it. If you wondering if she knew? OH HELL NO SHE DIDN’T! Cough DENIES! OH YES!

Making the post short, sort of, he knows I don’t like him and why I don’t like him. You know in that department I can careless if he knew why. Oh last thing almost forgot. The wedding was call off, but umm you know the rest. Oh yea let me tell you I was so busy with school I had neglect my friend. I know shame on me. I get a text letting me know she done got marry! I wasn’t happy! 😦 I was happy when she finally move back and decides to give the idiot another chance. Why? Hell IF I KNOW! Sighs! Forgive me for been everywhere with the post and for grammar errors.

Not all relationship from online will end this way, it’s just another example. I mention one that did last! You have to be willingly to take the good with the bad. I have learned to take everything I learn on relationship and put it all in my poems as you all can see. If we never had disappointments how would we be able to handle it when it comes. I have been a big fan of walking away when things get rough, I believe I still have that in me at times. I had to put that in my post in case a certain person reads it. lol

I hate to make this post so long and bore ya’ll, point of the post and hearing from my friend through email was to let me know she was going to finalize the divorce and she had find out he got some one prego. She was all sad because she doesn’t feel like a whole woman since its only 1% of chance she can have kids. I TOLD HER ITS NOT MEANT FOR YOU TO HAVE A CHILD YET! GOD HAS THE LAST SAY SO WHEN IT COMES TO ANYTHING. JUST BECAUSE THE DOCTOR IS TELLING HER SHE MAY NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE A CHILD, DOESN’T MEAN SHE SHOULD BEAT HERSELF UP OVER THE SITUATION. Sorry for all the caps look like I’m yelling when I’m not.

P.S Guys I know you all or not like this and so does she, I’m just telling you how it all went down, so don’t hate little o me. 🙂

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My Love Journey P.5

Posted on 7 Jan 20129 Jan 2012 by poeticjourney

I done said it many times before, but just in case you havent went back to read the other post with the same title. You’ll see the title more than once, but you’ll see a number at the end of each JOURNEY! On My Love Journey, has taken me through somethings, and I have learned somethings as well. When I was in Middle School I had a friend who was in the same group with me I believe Future Teachers of Alabama, I think that’s what it was called, or was it High School? Who Knows.

Anyways how many time’s or have you ever heard YOU CAN’T LOVE SOMEONE YOU NEVER SEEN? That can mean in person or havent laid your eyes on them by seen a picture,video chat or whatever. Some may even say it’s not normal to meet someone offline and to be in love with them? Hmmm…. Well I have heard that a few times, and have argue my case as well. Now back to my story at hand, since this is my blog for thoughts and whatnot I guess its okay for me to change subject as I please long as I don’t lose you all in the process. My friend mom told me and a few other young ladies that she met her husband online and well you know the rest, they married of course. My thing is love is everywhere, we just got to be willingly to have an open mind to it. Sometimes we miss out on that opportunity and someone good can slip right through your fingers. Now I’m not saying we should all be open-minded to founding our true love online. I was actually going to make this into a book and I might still do. I have talk to different people, on how they met they soul mate. I have an older cousin who said that her husband she met him in the club when she went for the last time. She stop going of course and gave her life to GOD, and he still wanted to be with her he follow her soon after. God knows what he doing! As you take my JOURNEY though My Love Journey you can see where I have been and where I’m at now. I honestly believe can’t nobody tell us who we can and can’t love. Thats whats wrong with a lot of people now, we telling them who they can and can’t love. Sometimes we have to learn from our own mistakes, to see it for ourself. I actually have a friend who had to learn a few of them. I do have permission to share they story on my blog, since it will eventually get use for my book. I will not share they names, but will tell you what I learn on they LOVE JOURNEY!

I believe that all I will say on this post since I have little one’s calling me and Discussion Board due tonight! I love to hear any input and feedback from you all. You all know I’m curious as to what you all think on anything I post! Do Have A Bless Saturday! God Bless 🙂

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My Love Journey P.4

Posted on 4 Nov 20119 Jan 2012 by poeticjourney

Its being awhile since I post on my love journey. So as I said in another post, you will see the title more than once.

How can we go through life without knowing what Love truly is? How can you love someone and not love who you are? It’s easy to say we love someone, just as easy to walk away from them as well. Why is it so easy to break a heart then to mend one so they could learn to love. Can you look in the mirror and see what missing? Sometime It takes someone who doesn’t know nothing about us, for us to see the good in ourself..

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My Love JourneyP.3

Posted on 13 Oct 20119 Jan 2012 by poeticjourney

I’m taking a Journey thru love right now. With so many questions being unanswered… You may see dis title more than once, but different entries.

How do you know you love a person? Or what you feel is Love and not Lust.

I ask a close friend these questions, and she gave me good answer. She truly had me thinking about it. Have we made decision in the past about who we love or telling a person we love them because we thought what we felt was love? I know it’s easy to say you love a person, but action does speak louder than words.

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My Love Journey P.2

Posted on 12 Oct 20119 Jan 2012 by poeticjourney

I did a post earlier for my Love Journey and shared a song about How can we Mend Broken Heart. Funny thing, I may change sides along my journey because I’m learning new things about myself every day. And hey I’m psychology major, so give me a break. Lol.

Can we truly mend a broken heart? I mean really mend it? Will it always be whole or do we actually have to work at it long as we discover who they truly or. I have many poems that will make you wonder and many quotes and question that will be like ummm maybe she got a point or you might be just as confuse as I am. Hell, I don’t know.

One of my favorite statements came from my cousin a few months ago .How true could it possible be. It takes a strong woman to love a torn man, but a stronger man to love a scorned woman; two strong minded people can’t be together, because they will always be bumping heads. When you find the person who is weak in the areas where you are strong, strong in the area where you are weak, then that’s compatibility! This makes it a stronger relationship.

This lovely status caught my attention. Makes me wonder how true it could be. I done met a few men in my life that was either torn or broken whatever you want to call it. Maybe I was meant to heal him for another woman to deserve him. Maybe I was meant to get as close as I did with the next one, but not really have him as mine. I wish I had known that before I fell in love with him. The last one I didn’t give a chance because my heart was trying to come to grip of losing the last one, that held my heart so tight, that made it so hard to walk away. So the next time one walks in my life I’m prepared, how about you?