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A Love Story Journey(true one)

I heard from a good friend yesterday. Its hard when your partner in crime n another state. Yesterday I talk about internet.If you miss out on that post please do check out My Love Journey P.5! How did I forget to share her story. I can think of a few reasons, but I ‘ll let ya’llย be the judge. My friendย  met her soon to be ex. husband on MySpace. (yea who still use that site?) Not I! Anyways it started off as a friendship and move to dating soon after. Peoples what look good on the outside, doesn’t mean its good on the inside. I thought he was okay guy @ first, but he prove me wrong soon after. Have you ever heard don’t judge a book by its cover? How the hell did I let my guard down? Let me tell you probably because she had been through so much and to see her happy had me at ease. Back to the story at hand. Maybe he was to young to understand love & marriage is truly about. Sound like I’m making excuses for him. Snap Out Of Denial PJ! okay I’m getting a little carry away from my story.( sorry) He decides to pop the question and she accepted! ๐Ÿ˜ฆ <<<<< says it all how I felt. She find some letters and some pictures. Now if you got some stuff you don’t want your other half to see. Why keep it at all and leave it in your bags you give to the other person to hold? If you thinking like I’m thinking, we going to enjoy the love journey with me, if you not thinking like I’m thinking hmmmย don’t know what to tell you. Phone call and its my friend crying, let me tell you we just had a girl day & we had good times, so I’m confuse on her crying. She letting me know I’m back on my way to your place. And shows up with all the evidence. (Engagement ring, letters). If you wondering why she marry him, that make two of us? lol This the friend I mention in yesterday post who have to learn on her own. I must say what a lesson & some drama she could’ve prevented if she listen to me ๐Ÿ™‚ Anyways back to the story. HE DENIED ABOUT ALL THIS, YES, HE DID! If you wonder if he ever admitted to any of this. HELL NO! he said the woman he was going to marry was his cousin. OH YEA THE HELL HE DID! My friend and Ole girl had a talk & and she told it all. Did he admit, OH NO! Still all lies. Oh yea I almost forgot to let you know before they met online he was suppose to marry the other girlย  a few days later. OH YES! And would;ve had a child, but they lost it. If you wondering if she knew? OH HELL NO SHE DIDN’T! Cough DENIES! OH YES!

Making the post short, sort of, he knows I don’t like him and why I don’t like him. You know in that department I can careless if he knew why.ย  Oh last thing almost forgot. The wedding was call off, but umm you know the rest. Oh yea let me tell you I was so busy with school I had neglect my friend. I know shame on me. I get a text letting me know she done got marry! I wasn’t happy! ๐Ÿ˜ฆ I was happy when she finally move back and decides to give the idiot another chance. Why? Hell IF I KNOW! Sighs! Forgive me for been everywhere with the post and for grammar errors.

Not all relationship from online will end this way, it’s just another example. I mention one that did last! You have to be willingly to take the good with the bad. I have learned to take everything I learn on relationship and put it all in my poems as you all can see. If we never had disappointments how would we be able to handle it when it comes. I have been a big fan of walking away when things get rough, I believe I still have that in me at times. I had to put that in my post in case a certain person reads it. lol

I hate to make this post so long and bore ya’ll, point of the post and hearing from my friend through email was to let me know she was going to finalize the divorce and she had find out he got some one prego. She was all sad because she doesn’t feel like a whole woman since its only 1% of chance she can have kids. I TOLD HER ITS NOT MEANT FOR YOU TO HAVE A CHILD YET! GOD HAS THE LAST SAY SO WHEN IT COMES TO ANYTHING. JUST BECAUSE THE DOCTOR IS TELLING HER SHE MAY NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE A CHILD, DOESN’T MEAN SHE SHOULD BEAT HERSELF UP OVER THE SITUATION. Sorry for all the caps look like I’m yelling when I’m not.

P.S Guys I know you all or not like this and so does she, I’m just telling you how it all went down, so don’t hate little o me. ๐Ÿ™‚ Registered & Protected


I blog for many reasons, the love of writing, to inspire and touch someone life. No matter what I'm going through in my life. It's a get away when my SC becomes to much for me to handle. I love to get carry away in MY WORLD! I'm on a JOURNEY to discover myself. God Bless! :)

10 thoughts on “A Love Story Journey(true one)

  1. I feel sad for your friend PJ, what a mess. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ The guy sure sounds like a player and sorry she had to find out the hard way. I wish she wouldn’t feel bad about herself for not being able to have kids. Dave and I couldn’t, several miscarriages and we both knew God was in charge. This was an intersting story of your poor friend and the internet, hope she will be OK. You were a good friend PJ, we just can’t always have the answers for our friends. Even if we do, they don’t always listen! ๐Ÿ™‚


    1. Thank You for your comment Gabby, it meant a lot. I’m sorry to hear you couldnt either, sort of remind me of my Godmother but she had plenty of God children ๐Ÿ™‚ You know that saying hard head make a soft behind, sad but true! Guess in her case was heartache. No matter what I’m always here for her. Just hate to see her feel like that when she so far from me. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ God Bless YOu ๐Ÿ™‚

      OAN: so glad I didn’t confuse you with all my talking! ๐Ÿ™‚


    1. Sad but true!What make it so sad, is she had nothing to be desperate about, I must say it may have been the other way around. Desperation tend to get a lot of us in trouble! Like I told her do you believe having a child with him, he wouldnt did what he did? Sometimes what we want or think we want isn’t zlways good for us. I know I may have to do some serious edit of this post when I wake up. lol


  2. How could that have been boring, what channel she come on… what time… that will make it in the lineup of real life Dramatic Moments. Yet seriously… my best friend married a guy who unfortunately I didn’t like from the first day we met/ And I said nothing. I feel today i did her injustice as her best friend… yet the courses we take in life are intended to be with a destination of appreciation, eternal love to God, and the humble heart to not only be completely giving of our faith, but also strong in it with tests of time and experience. God got her and well the devil has put a good spin in it… we as women will forgive let go often for we are the nurturers of the earth… yet we are also resilent. Its a bonus of the pain we experience. God does not like ugly and that is for sure… he got that trifling image of masculinity.


    1. Lol@ to what time and channel! At first I didn’t get it since I’m still just waking up, but yea I believe it would be a good one. Sometimes what we see on lifetime and soap some or actually living it! Yea I know what you mean, I done been like that to a friend, but I have learn my lesson from the past. When they seem like they happy and you just don’t want to take it from them. Thank you for your input. It was something that had to happen! God Bless ๐Ÿ™‚


  3. journey, please remind your friend of Sarah in the Bible conceiving Isaac when in her old age. Maybe God has someone(s) in mind out there already born for her to foster and/or adopt? So grateful she has you for her true friend! Pray together! Praise together! I met my husband immediately after being asked to give the blessing of the meal at the outreach center where we were both volunteering. Yes, I was praising when he heard my voice the first time ever. How could he ever be less than totally upright with me? Please share this with your friend!


    1. Aww thank you for sharing your story Granbee how you met your hubby ๐Ÿ™‚ I make sure to share the story with her. I had forgot about that story and I love to hear it and use it with my mom all the time. lol That will be for another person down the road. lol True to the adopt part. I know she thought about that as well.


  4. I also feel sad for your friend, PJ, but she truly has a wonderful friend in least, she did decide to move on and I know God has a plan for her regarding having a baby or adopting, as Rose mentioned….we just don’t know what it is, until it takes place~


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